More Men Enter Fields Dominated by Women

CNBC.com | 21 May 2012

Wearing brick-red scrubs and chatting in Spanish, Miguel Alquicira settled a tiny girl into an adult-size dental chair and soothed her through a set of X-rays. Then he ushered the dentist, a woman, into the room and stayed on to serve as interpreter.

A male dental assistant, Mr. Alquicira is in the minority. But he is also part of a distinctive, if little noticed, shift in workplace gender patterns. Over the last decade, men have begun flocking to fields long the province of women.

Mr. Alquicira, 21, graduated from high school in a desolate job market, one in which the traditional opportunities, like construction and manufacturing, for young men without a college degree had dried up. After career counselors told him that medical fields were growing, he borrowed money for an eight-month training course. Since then, he has had no trouble finding jobs that pay $12 or $13 an hour.

He gave little thought to the fact that more than 90 percent of dental assistants and hygienists are women. But then, young men like Mr. Alquicira have come of age in a world of inverted expectations, where women far outpace men in earning degrees and tend to hold jobs that have turned out to be, by and large, more stable, more difficult to outsource, and more likely to grow.

“The way I look at it,” Mr. Alquicira explained, without a hint of awareness that he was turning the tables on a time-honored feminist creed, “is that anything, basically, that a woman can do, a guy can do.”

After years of economic pain, Americans remain an optimistic lot, though they define the American dream not in terms of mansions and luxury cars but as something more basic — a home, a college degree, financial security and enough left over for a few extras like dining out, according to a study by the Pew Center on the States’ Economic Mobility Project.

That financial security usually requires a steady full-time job with benefits, something that has become harder to find, particularly for men and for those without a college degree. While women continue to make inroads into prestigious, high-wage professions dominated by men, more men are reaching for the dream in female-dominated occupations that their fathers might never have considered.

The trend began well before the crash, and appears to be driven by a variety of factors, including financial concerns, quality-of-life issues and a gradual erosion of gender stereotypes. An analysis of census data by The New York Times shows that from 2000 to 2010, occupations that are more than 70 percent female accounted for almost a third of all job growth for men, double the share of the previous decade.

That does not mean that men are displacing women — those same occupations accounted for almost two-thirds of women’s job growth. But in Texas, for example, the number of men who are registered nurses nearly doubled in that time period, rising from just over 9 percent of nurses to almost 12 percent. Men make up 23 percent of Texas public schoolteachers, but almost 28 percent of first-year teachers.

The shift includes low-wage jobs as well. Nationally, two-thirds more men were bank tellers, almost twice as many were receptionists and two-thirds more were waiting tables in 2010 than a decade earlier.

Even more striking is the type of men who are making the shift. From 1970 to 1990, according to a study by Mary Gatta, the senior scholar at Wider Opportunities for Women, and Patricia A. Roos, a sociologist at Rutgers, men who took so-called pink-collar jobs tended to be foreign-born non-English speakers with low education levels — men who, in other words, had few choices.

Now, though, the trend has spread among men of nearly all races and ages, more than a third of whom have a college degree. In fact, the shift is most pronounced among young, white, college-educated men like Charles Reed, a sixth-grade math teacher at Patrick Henry Middle School in Houston.

Mr. Reed, 25, intended to go to law school after a two-year stint with Teach for America, but he fell in love with the job. Though he says the recession had little to do with his career choice, he believes the tough times that have limited the prospects for new law school graduates have also helped make his father, a lawyer, more accepting.

Still, Mr. Reed said of his father, “In his mind, I’m just biding time until I decide to jump into a better profession.”

To the extent that the shift to “women’s work” has been accelerated by recession, the change may reverse when the economy recovers. “Are boys today saying, ‘I want to grow up and be a nurse?’ ” asked Heather Boushey, senior economist at the Center for American Progress. “Or are they saying, ‘I want a job that’s stable and recession proof?’ ”

In interviews, however, about two dozen men played down the economic considerations, saying that the stigma associated with choosing such jobs had faded, and that the jobs were appealing not just because they offered stable employment, but because they were more satisfying.

“I.T. is just killing viruses and clearing paper jams all day,” said Scott Kearney, 43, who tried information technology and other fields before becoming a nurse in the pediatric intensive care unit at Children’s Memorial Hermann Hospital in Houston.

Daniel Wilden, a 26-year-old Army veteran and nursing student at the University of Texas Health Science Center at Houston, said he had gained respect for nursing when he saw a female medic use a Leatherman tool to save the life of his comrade. “She was a beast,” he said admiringly.

More than a few men said their new jobs had turned out to be far harder than they imagined.

But these men can expect success. Men earn more than women even in female-dominated jobs. And white men in particular who enter those fields easily move up to supervisory positions, a phenomenon known as the glass escalator — as opposed to the glass ceiling that women encounter in male-dominated professions, said Adia Harvey Wingfield, a sociologist at Georgia State University. More men in an occupation can also raise wages for everyone, though as yet men’s share of these jobs has not grown enough to have an overall effect on pay.

“Simply because higher-educated men are entering these jobs does not mean that it will result in equality in our workplaces,” said Ms. Gatta of Wider Opportunities for Women.

Still, economists have long tried to figure out how to encourage more integration in the work force. Now, it seems to be happening of its own accord.

“I hated my job every single day of my life,” said John Cook, 55, who got a modest inheritance that allowed him to leave the company where he earned $150,000 a year as a database consultant and enter nursing school.

His starting salary will be about a third what he once earned, but database consulting does not typically earn hugs like the one Mr. Cook recently received from a girl after he took care of her premature baby sister. “It’s like, people get paid for doing this kind of stuff?” Mr. Cook said, choking up as he recounted the episode.

Several men cited the same reasons for seeking out pink-collar work that have drawn women to such careers: less stress and more time at home. At John G. Osborne Elementary, Adrian Ortiz, 42, joked that he was one of the few Mexicans who made more in his native country, where he was a hard-working lawyer, than he did in the United States as a kindergarten teacher in a bilingual classroom. “Now,” he said, “my priorities are family, 100 percent.”

Betsey Stevenson, a labor economist at the Wharton School at the University of Pennsylvania, said she was not surprised that changing gender roles at home, where studies show men are shouldering more of the domestic burden and spending more time parenting, are now showing up in career choices.

“We tend to study these patterns of what’s going on in the family and what’s going on in the workplace as separate, but they’re very much intertwined,” she said. “So as attitudes in the family change, attitudes toward the workplace have changed.”

In a classroom at Houston Community College, Dexter Rodriguez, 35, said his job in tech support had not been threatened by the tough economy. Nonetheless, he said, his family downsized the house, traded the new cars for used ones and began to live off savings, all so Mr. Rodriguez could train for a career he regarded as more exciting.

“I put myself into the recession,” he said, “because I wanted to go to nursing school.”

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Do men use their power to oppress women?

Feminists say men have the power and use it to oppress women. If that’s true, how did they get the brazen idea they could crank up a women’s movement and prevail against this male power and halt its supposed objective of keeping women underfoot?

by Jerry A. Boggs

Men have the power, and they use it to oppress women.

So say many ideological feminists.

But if that’s true, how did feminists get the brazen idea that they could crank up a women’s movement and prevail against this male power and halt its supposed objective of keeping women underfoot? In other words, how could a powerless group ever expect to triumph over a powerful group and subvert its alleged goal of oppression? I mean, physically powerless me would never take on the very powerful boxer Mike Tyson no matter how much he oppressed me. And if I thought I could somehow defeat him with a brains-over-brawn strategy, wouldn’t that mean I believed that I, not he, had the power in the first place?

Perhaps feminists realized they could succeed with a women’s movement because all along they knew something they dared not admit, even among themselves: Men’s true intent regarding women was not oppression but protection, and that the “oppression” occurred only when the protection over-reached to deny women the equal opportunity to participate in realms men thought were unfit for women.

But denying women equal opportunity was not men’s intent, either; rather, it was the result of men’s perception of women as the weak and delicate moral gatekeepers who were not to be debased or harmed by society’s often brutal reality.

Thus, women were to be placed on a pedestal where they would be protected from the often ruthless, ugly business of generating income except when necessary. And even when it was necessary for women to generate income, they generally were permitted to work only in physically safe and untaxing work. For example, until recent times men taught in schools in the winter, and the women taught in the summer when men worked the farms, a hard, grueling work that men protected women from doing. Women were to be protected from all the things both sexes thought women were above and not to be exposed to.

That males desire to protect females, rather than oppress them, is perhaps best symbolized by the ship Titanic, which sank in 1912 when society stood perhaps at the pinnacle of patriarchal oppressiveness. Even wealthy men aboard the Titanic refused to enter the lifeboats ahead of even poor, third-class women. By allowing adult females into the boats, the men knew they were dooming many children — in some cases their own — in order to save women they did not even know. If men had wanted to oppress women, the Maritime law would have been “Men and children first,” and the Titanic’s casualties would have been mostly females, not mostly males. 

And perhaps feminists knew something else: if men were willing to sacrifice their lives for women, maybe they would sacrifice their arguments against a women’s movement that protested men’s protections and demanded women’s equal opportunities. In retrospect, they knew right.

What feminists knew, I suspect, is that the average guy — who represents about 97 percent of the male population — has no more power than the average female and often has less when women’s power in the reproductive world is factored in. The power dynamic between the sexes is such that the average man puts up a facade of power and the average women puts up a facade of powerlessness. (In the Myth of Male Power, Warren Farrell posited that men’s weakness is their facade of strength and women’s strength is their facade of weakness.) Feminists encourage women to put up that facade, for they believe society and government are far more inclined to give to the powerless than to the powerful.

All this is likely what inspired feminists to launch a movement that was calculated to succeed on the basis of the “powerless female.” The women’s movement succeeded so well, in fact — because feminists knew men so well — that in time feminists were able to transform their equality movement into a sexist anti-male movement, which still encountered little or no resistance from men, especially among male journalists in the mainstream media.

So do men use their power to oppress women?

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Book description of “Tilting the Playing Field: Schools, Sports, Sex and Title IX”

A description of the book:

Tilting the Playing Field: Schools, Sports, Sex and Title IX

By Jessica Gavora

Amazon.com

When Congress passed Title IX of the Civil Rights Act in 1972, they seemed to be doing something laudable and also long overdue-prohibiting discrimination on the basis of sex in America’s schools.

But thirty years later, a law designed to guarantee equal opportunity has become the most explicit, government-enforced quota regime in America, putting boys and men on the losing side of a battle for athletic and educational opportunity.

A former athlete herself, Jessica Gavora interviewed dozens of leading college athletes, educators and legal experts for this provocative, yet carefully researched book. She argues that the 1999 World Cup victory of the U.S. Women’s Soccer team, for instance, widely seen as a Title IX triumph, was actually the result of a far more profound social revolution that has changed America’s mind about sexual roles and female destiny.

If anything, Title IX has had a destructive overall effect on all college athletes by killing opportunities to compete. Gavora shows how Title IX sports quotas have caused chaos at schools like Brown University and led directly to the cancellation of some of the most prestigious men’s programs in the country-among them Providence College’s baseball team, Princeton’s wrestling team and the men’s swimming and diving program that produced several Olympic champions.

But if Title IX has tilted the college playing field, Gavora suggests that its greatest impact on American social life may still lie ahead as the federal bureaucrats, activist judges, and radical feminists who have shaped the statute’s interpretation now seek to expand its reach into sexual harassment [See a Male Matters in-depth look at sexual harassment.] and other areas of education where boys and girls have to conform to their notion of “gender equity.”

“Tilting the Playing Field” is a trenchant insider’s look at how one law — and its unintended consequences — has affected our view of sports, sex, and schools.

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‘Paycheck Fairness’ Will Mean a Pay Cut for Men

“Statistics about young men’s troubling prospects…should encourage greater awareness of how policies sold as protecting women can be used to bludgeon men….”

By CARRIE LUKAS

Team Obama calculates that its road to victory is paved with the votes of women, so the American people are now subject to a coordinated effort to cast GOP opposition to expanding government power as an assault on the weaker sex. But few women view public policy as a battle between the sexes. Women whose husbands, brothers and sons are struggling to find jobs find no comfort in women’s comparatively low unemployment rate.

Next up in the Democratic campaign is the Paycheck Fairness Act, supposedly necessary to achieve “equal pay” for women. Never mind that it’s already illegal to pay women less than men for the same work. Democrats say that failure to support this bill is akin to greenlighting workplace discrimination. In reality, women aren’t the primary beneficiaries of the Paycheck Fairness Act. Lawyers are, since it encourages more litigation, increases potential lawsuit payouts, and makes it more difficult for companies to defend themselves.

Under the act, the government would also collect more information about compensation practices and establish a national award for employers deemed best in advancing “pay equity.” These are distractions companies don’t need.

Feminists have long wanted enlightened government officials, rather than the indifferent market, to determine salaries. Information collection and government-compensation guidelines today could easily become regulations and mandates tomorrow.

Such meddling would be disastrous for the economy, but men particularly should be warned: Bureaucrats micromanaging compensation standards will mean many male workers should expect a pay cut.

We’ve seen how this works. Soon Democrats will celebrate the 40th anniversary of Title IX as a triumph for women’s equality, but mothers of would-be wrestlers and male gymnasts know this well-intentioned law has a darker history.

Title IX amended federal education law to require that schools receiving federal funding couldn’t discriminate on the basis of sex. However, enforcement procedures have morphed this antidiscrimination statute into a de facto quota system for athletics. Many colleges have eliminated men’s teams, and some male sports are now all but extinct at the collegiate level, such as men’s gymnastics.

Colleges’ struggle to meet Title IX’s proportionality requirement speaks to a larger issue: Women increasingly outnumber men on campus, earning an estimated 57% of bachelor’s degrees. Against this backdrop, Title IX’s enforcement policy seems particularly ill-conceived. Female students out-participate men in just about all activities other than sports, from theater programs to student government. Why are sports the sole target of Title IX?

It turns out that the law’s champions—including the Obama administration’s Title IX Interagency Working Group—do want to expand its reach to academics, specifically to science, technology, engineering and mathematics, the few disciplines in which men’s enrollment continues to outpace women’s.

Of course, statistics about young men’s troubling prospects shouldn’t be used to justify a new set of intrusive government programs to bolster boys’ self-esteem or curb women’s success in pursuit of gender parity. But they should encourage greater awareness of how policies sold as protecting women can be used to bludgeon men, and they should spur greater skepticism of the idea that women need bigger government to succeed.

The War on Women rhetoric may be intended to derail specific candidacies, but it also derails needed public-policy debates. With trillion-dollar deficits, we need to make tough choices about funding priorities. Calling attempts to control government’s costs an assault on women will only make deliberations less productive.

Americans had a preview of how this tactic stifles debate during the recent reauthorization of the Violence Against Women Act. Senate Minority Leader Mitch McConnell saw this law, known to be riddled with waste and fraud, as a politically toxic issue. So instead of pushing for needed reforms, he surrendered, declaring, “We’re all in favor of the Violence Against Women Act. . . . There’s nothing to fight about.”

Women cannot be a political shield that prevents rigorous debate about the direction of our country.

Ms. Lukas is the managing director of the Independent Women’s Forum.

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The Case Against the Paycheck Fairness Act

No competent labor economist takes the NOW perspective seriously.

By Christina Hoff Sommers | USNews.com | May 4, 2012

Christina Hoff Sommers is a resident scholar at the American Enterprise Institute.

The Paycheck Fairness Act looks like common sense, but instead of helping women it will hurt all workers. The legislation, built on 30 years of spurious advocacy research, will impose unnecessary and onerous requirements on employers.

Groups like the National Organization for Women insist that women are being cheated out of 24 percent of their salary. The pay equity bill is driven by indignation at this supposed injustice. Yet no competent labor economist takes the NOW perspective seriously. An analysis of more than 50 peer-reviewed papers, commissioned by the Labor Department, found that the so-called wage gap is mostly, and perhaps entirely, an artifact of the different choices men and women make—different fields of study, different professions, different balances between home and work. Wage-gap activists argue that even when we control for relevant variables, women still earn less. But it always turns out that they have omitted one or two crucial variables. Congress should ignore the discredited claims of activist groups.

The misnamed Paycheck Fairness Act is a special-interest bill for litigators and aggrieved women’s groups. A core provision would encourage class-action lawsuits and force defendants to settle under threat of uncapped punitive damages. Employers would be liable not only for intentional discrimination (banned long ago) but for the “lingering effects of past discrimination.” What does that mean? Employers have no idea. Universities, for example, typically pay professors in the business school more than those in the school of social work. That’s a fair outcome of market demand. But according to the gender theory permeating this bill, market forces are tainted by “past discrimination.” Gender “experts” will testify that sexist attitudes led society to place a higher value on male-centered fields like business than female-centered fields like social work. Faced with multimillion-dollar lawsuits and attendant publicity, innocent employers will settle. They will soon be begging for the safe harbor of federally determined occupational wage scales.

This bill also authorizes the secretary of labor to award grants to organizations to teach women and girls how to negotiate better salaries and compensation packages. Where is the justice in that? The current recession has hit men harder than women. Census data from 2008 show that single, childless women in their 20s now earn 8 percent more on average than their male counterparts in metropolitan areas. If Congress is going to enact labor legislation with the word “fair” in it, it cannot limit the benefits to women. Senators may be tempted to vote for the Paycheck Fairness Act out in the mistaken belief that it is a common-sense equity bill. It is not. It won’t help women, but it will create havoc in an already precarious job market.

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Is there a war on women?

First, watch Rep. Carolyn Maloney evade and shift as CNN’s Anderson Cooper presses for straight answers from someone who apparently is not pressed very often.

Source: http://www.allthingscnn.com/

So…what about the war on women?

Women are a majority because as a group they outlive men*, who die sooner of the 12 leading causes of death. (They die sooner largely because the government funds more health research for the group that is healthier and longer-living than it does for men — which would be like funding more economic help for men, the higher-earning group). And because men as a group are penalized by having an earlier death, they are a minority that is also penalized by having less political importance as voters.

Thus, Democrats, seeing women as more important to elections than men, are strategically waging a war on Republicans by accusing them of waging a war on women.

But Democrats are waging a war on women, too, of an insidious kind. They are recklessly pandering to women. They continually promise them something for nothing — and no doubt anger more than a few men, especially black men, whom they and President Obama have discriminatorily ignored — and disregard the costs to business of their something-for-nothing legislation, costs that are passed on to customers and/or employees, hurting women as much as men. (Read former CNN host Campbell Brown’s May 21, 2012, complaint about President Obama’s pandering to women.)

An example of the Democrats’ pandering legislation is the Ledbetter Fair Pay Act. President Obama signed it into law solely to repay feminists for upping female votes. While the President tells women the act will help close the gender wage gap — women’s 78 cents to men’s dollar — he won’t tell them this:

No law yet has closed the wage gap — not the 1963 Equal Pay for Equal Work Act, not Title VII of the 1964 Civil Rights Act, not the 1978 Pregnancy Discrimination Act, not the 1991 amendments to Title VII, not affirmative action (which has benefited mostly white women, the group most vocal about the wage gap – http://tinyurl.com/74cooen), not diversity, not the countless state and local laws and regulations, not the horde of overseers at the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, and not the Ledbetter Fair Pay Act…. Nor will a “paycheck fairness” law work.

That’s because pay-equity advocates continue to overlook the effects of female AND male behavior:

Despite the 40-year-old demand for women’s equal pay, millions of wives still choose to have no pay at all. In fact, according to Dr. Scott Haltzman, author of “The Secrets of Happily Married Women,” stay-at-home wives, including the childless who represent an estimated 10 percent, constitute a growing niche. “In the past few years,” he says in a CNN report at http://tinyurl.com/6reowj, “many women who are well educated and trained for career tracks have decided instead to stay at home.” (“Census Bureau data show that 5.6 million mothers stayed home with their children in 2005, about 1.2 million more than did so a decade earlier….” at http://tinyurl.com/qqkaka. If indeed more women are staying at home, perhaps it’s because feminists and the media have told women for years that female workers are paid less than men in the same jobs — so why bother working if they’re going to be penalized and humiliated for being a woman. Yet, if “greedy, profit-obsessed” employers could get away with paying women less than men for the same work, they would not hire a man – ever.)

As full-time mothers or homemakers, stay-at-home wives earn zero. How can they afford to do this while in many cases living in luxury? Because they’re supported by their husband, an “employer” who pays them to stay at home.

Feminists, government, and the media ignore or can’t seem to understand what a 10-year-old could figure out in ten seconds: If millions of wives are able to accept NO wages and live as well as their husbands, millions of other wives are able to:

-accept low wages

-refuse overtime and promotions

-choose jobs based on interest first, pay second — the reverse of what men tend to do

-work part-time instead of full-time (“According to a 2009 UK study for the Centre for Policy Studies, only 12 percent of the 4,690 women surveyed wanted to work full time”: http://bit.ly/ihc0tl See also an Australian report at http://tinyurl.com/862kzes)

-take more unpaid days off

-avoid uncomfortable wage-bargaining (http://tinyurl.com/3a5nlay)

All of which LOWER WOMEN’S AVERAGE PAY.

Women are able to make these choices because they are supported — or anticipate being supported — by a husband who must earn more than if he’d chosen never to marry. (Still, even many men who shun marriage, unlike their female counterparts, feel their self worth is tied to their net worth.) This is how MEN help create the wage gap. If the roles were reversed so that men raised the children and women raised the income, men would average lower pay than women.

Afterword: The power in money is not in earning it (there is only responsibility, sweat, and stress in earning money). The power in money is in SPENDING it. And, Warren Farrell says in The Myth of Male Power at http://www.warrenfarrell.org/TheBook/index.html,”Women control consumer spending by a wide margin in virtually every consumer category.” (Women’s control over spending, adds Farrell, gives women control over TV programs.) “A recent research study revealed that the average woman spends eight years of her life shopping [spending] — over 300 shopping trips per year. Men, only a fraction of that.” -

http://www.terryoreilly.ca/blog/show/id/78

“Nearly half of all American women think they are doing much better in their career than the man in their life, according to a new poll.” http://www.nypost.com/p/news/local/half_of_women_feel_more_successful_eao9N2neTpnJZLwFmEONgK#ixzz1rMad9gsF

So…does the Ledbetter Act help women? Or pander to them?

Excerpted from “Will the Ledbetter Fair Pay Act Help Women?” at http://malemattersusa.wordpress.com/2011/12/03/will-the-ledbetter-fair-pay-act-help-women/

*Reports on men’s health:

The New York Times: “Health-wise, men are the weaker sex”

http://malemattersusa.wordpress.com/2012/02/04/health-wise-men-are-the-weaker-sex/

“Leading Cancer Killers – a Gender Breakdown”

http://malemattersusa.wordpress.com/2012/02/28/leading-cancer-killers-a-gender-breakdown/

The New York Times: “Health Disparities Persist for Men, and Doctors Ask Why”

http://malemattersusa.wordpress.com/2012/03/06/finally-the-new-york-times-reports-on-mens-health/

“Does Obamacare Discriminate Against Men”

http://malemattersusa.wordpress.com/2012/03/18/does-obamacare-discriminate-against-men/

Source: http://www.allthingscnn.com/.
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Two quick lessons on “power” in male-female relationships: What feminists do not want women to know

Lesson #1

To better understand “power” between the sexes, it helps to reflect on two guiding principles:

    • power is not taken; it is given;
    • nobody does anything without a pay-off, real or perceived, immediate or later. 

Consider an example which illustrates both principles and gets right to the crux of “gender power”: 

A stay-at-home wife is at her feminist group, which teaches not responsibility and accountability but female victimology. She complains that her husband controls her. Heads bob up and down vigorously in agreement. 

But they are wrong. The wife lets her husband “control” her. That is, she gives him the “power” to do his “controlling” of her. 

How? By staying in the relationship and agreeing to do “his bidding” so as to keep the peace and perhaps remain financially supported. Peace and financial support are her pay-offs which she consciously or subconsciously sees as an equal exchange for her doing what he says. (Which means that he is paying for his “power” over her by economically supporting her — an exchange he subconsciously sees as equal.) Being financially supported permits her to avoid the time-consuming, tough work of becoming economically independent. If our kids, behaving like her husband, badger us until we give in and fork over our hard-earned $50 for a toy, do the kids have power over us because we did their bidding? Of course not. We recognize that we gave in to have peace and quiet, which is our pay-off for “giving power” to our kids (who foolishly think they do have power over us!). 

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Lesson #2

Feminists say men have the power. But an alien observing us from another world might think otherwise. Consider:

In the 1976 WWII movie “Midway,” Lt. Cmdr. Ernest L. Blake walks ahead of his superior officer, Fleet Admiral Chester W. Nimitz, and opens the door for him. Why? Because superior officers in the military do not open doors for subordinates; it’s the other way around. That’s the way it is in the military because who opens the door for whom is considered a way of demonstrating who has power and authority.

Likewise, when men open doors for women, it is a sign of female power – not male power, as many feminists insist. Ditto when men rise from their seats to greet a woman, or give up their seat for her. Or remove their hat in her presence. Or pass laws that favor women over men: to wit, maritime laws and selective service laws. Or laws that permit wives to own half of their husband’s assets and to spend money the husband earns without her having to produce an income herself. Or laws that provide an Office of Research on Women’s Health for the healthier, longer-living sex, which would be like an Office of Research on Men’s Economic Advancement for the higher-paid sex.

Our alien observer might conclude to his fellow alien: “It appears the female of the species is protected and often treated like royalty.”

The people at Projectsocialart.com see a man exerting power over a woman. What do you think now? Did someone force her to work there? Doesn't she have sexual power that he does not have, sexual power that she converts to economic power paying her about $1,000 per night? Note that only attractive women work strip clubs. Can only they be desperate for work?

What other signs of female power do you see — like the one to the right — but which feminists and the mainstream media ignore? 

__________

For another example on what feminists do not want the sexes to know, see “Wives Belong at Home With the Children.”

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